Dang…I haven’t been on Tumblr in forever…this stupid college bio class is taking up most of my time :(
But, I gotta say, it is so refreshing to be back on Tumblr. I missed it :]
I’m engaged to the love of my life. We’re waiting until I’m done with college to get married (which will be about 4 years). He lives 4 or so hours away from me, but in a year I was thinking of moving in with him and finishing my college degree where he is. I found a good college near him that has a lot of the requirements I need for my degree. He has a well paying job and the job is in his career field. I am concentrating on finishing my degree along with working part time.
I had this all planned out. Problem is is my mom thinks I’m going to live in the dorms of the college I plan on going to (I didn’t tell her I was wanting to move in with my fiance yet). AND my mom is trying to steer me away from going to this college. She wants me to stay where I am and go to a closer college that I don’t want to go to because it fits everyone’s budget better. The college I want to go to costs a lot of money (my mom was wanting to help me pay for everything) but I have ways of paying for my college, possibly without taking out a loan.
I want to get experience with everything without my mom. But I feel like I have to have her approval…but I feel as though I would be happy living with my fiance, working, and finishing my degree at a college I WANT to go to, even though I know it will be hard.
So the question is - what should I do?